Most of you probably have just as much trouble with confrontations as I do. I'm going through a really tough time right now and could use some advice. I just broke up with my alcoholic husband--I let him find out by being served divorce papers because I couldn't bear to confront him about it myself. He was given 24 hours to vacate, and I changed my locks and my phone number. But he keeps calling the landline because he left a lot of stuff here and wants it back. Part of me wants to think "oh well he was given 24 hours too bad," but I know I can't do that. But I never want to have to see him again after what he's put me through, and I couldn't handle the confrontation. Just the thought of it makes me lightheaded. I don't know if he even remembers being served or escorted out by the police, since he was drunk the entire time. Advice?